omg lesson#71: intimate apparel for boys

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first off, this lesson is brought to you courtesy of @jackburden (on fetlife) who did all the research/ legwork on this. but since he's a bit shy, he offered all his work to me to add to my omg lessons. i don't know this young man in person, but he's awfully lovely when we message each other. just sayin'...

now why do all the good single subs live so far away from me?!!?!?!? sigh

but i digress...on to the lesson....

this could be considered part 2 of omg lesson#72: fetish wear for boys but the focus is really on underwear and more intimate apparel so really it deserved its own title. imho.

men, boys, dudes, bros - you really need to up your underwear game.

worn, torn, barely there, and gear with holes in them are not attractive. and i'm not even going to talk about cleanliness b/c that should go without saying. particularly if you're planning on bottoming or any public kinky play, you ought to plan to have some nice underwear, ok?

now in @jackburden's words, he tends to prefer a boxer brief aesthetic (which i personally happen to like myself) so keep in mind that many of the options listed below do come in boxer and boxer-brief options. he was going for a "straight, clearly male-sub" aesthetic. of course, there's plenty more variety for people with different tastes and styles. but i gotta say, just from the titles alone, i would check them out :)

having trouble choosing?

if you have a dominant, parade your choices in front of her and ask her to pick her faves. if you haven't got a dominant, maybe parade your choices on your fet gallery (it's a hella better than the dick pix, let me tell ya'). run a contest and ask women to rate the underwear in your gallery. it's better than asking us to rate your dick. just sayin'...

does shape wear really work?

as far as technology, some of the men's shape wear (padding such as found here or show-off such as found here) do a much better job than expected. according to our intrepid shopper and tester, the former are better for under clothes, and the latter tends to display better when worn without clothes on.

the clear winners...

honourable mentions...

here are the ones that @jackburden happened to peek at but didn't end up choosing. so no testing data:( however, if there's something here you like...maybe you can report back in the comments about your results?!?!?

also, marek+richard have briefs that read "more please", "porn star", "bottom", "slave", "spank me", "fuck me", and jocks with "cum whore" and a <3 shaped cut-out on the back. while the site was down last i looked (as a result of damage sustained through natural disasters in texas) keep an eye out for when their site comes back. 

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please feel free to share in the comments your adventures in underwear and intimate apparel shopping. now i didn't get into stockings and garters and more cross dressing type stuff b/c:

1) really, that deserves its own lesson and 

2) not all subs are cds and not all cds are subs. and this one is really geared to s-type men. 

and if you feel like showing off your stuff (the underwear and not your dick), please feel free to put a link in the comments of you rockin' your sexy/hot underwear. let me objectify you, ok? please and thank you. 


Oct 29, 2019

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