omg lesson #50: the basics of an s&m scene: smg style
i am sometimes asked how i plan a scene. b/c i like to plan. i'm pretty weird. i like control and protocol. and i'm a sadist. and some people think sadists don't plan anything. that we just like to use hitty things on people. and anything can be a hitty thing. now while anything can be a hitty thing, my scenes are little more sophisticated than that. seriously, have you not read anything i've written? lol. now mind you, sometimes there are more informal types of play i may do with someone i like and know and there's something very specific we both enjoy. trampling comes to mind. or a bit of foot worship. those aren't full on scenes per se. i don't do a lot of planning for those. i just know what i want to do and will negotiate that prior. what i'm talking about specifically, here, is when i have a 2 hour scene or longer planned, for private play, where i get to control all the variables. or at least i like to think i can control all the variables... ther...