omg lesson#24: i don't have $, time, skills, etc. or 'how can i find the dominant of my dreams without any effort?'
i have read, more often than i care to think about, all the excuses in the book about why people can't find a kinky partner. now, mind you, it's most s-type men whining about finding a domme b/c, well, i'm a domme and i've spent my fair share of time on online femdom groups. and the excuses are fairly predictable. there's anxiety, social awkwardness (check out lesson#10 ), shame, not knowing how to go about it, and the lack of self awareness. all of those things can be addressed if you want to. they do require work on the part of the individual but if you've read some of my earlier lessons, there's some strategies, some helpful hints and some tools you can employ to help move past some of this stuff . if you're willing to do the work, you can invite good things into your life. but lord love a duck. the penchant that people have for telling me how busy they are and how they can't possibly find the time, money, energy to go about socializing with kinky...