omg lessons

recently, i read in a thread a submissive man asking why women couldn't be more like another woman who seemed to describe his perfect idea of a domme. he posted, quite innocently, i think, 'why can't women be more like you?' ahhh....can you imagine the responses he got? that women are not all designed to be his perfect dominant frankenstein built from all his porn fantasies and pro dommes he's known before. that women are individuals and there are no stepford dommes. so he could just. fuck. right. off. i'm paraphrasing. but you get the gist. it didn't go well for him. and he seemed really clueless about why he was getting so much flack for what he felt was a valid question. we all know (or at least i hope we all do...) that people are not born or made into our ideal image or type. and they don't do things exactly as we'd wish all the time. and life would be boring if they were. b/c if every man or the vast majority of men were my type, chances are th...