omg lessons

i was recently asked what i expected in an flr and i had to think about that one. b/c i have no idea what a typical flr looks like. and frankly, i'm not interested in a 'typical' flr. i just know what works for me and what i expect in my relationships. so first off, i am an intense person. i love intensely and passionately. i don't hold back. it may take me a while to get there...i don't jump into things without careful consideration and assessing compatibility along with that sparky spark (the intangible factor). but once i love, i'm all in. and what's mine is mine. this is one place i. do. not. share. i am also incredibly protective - don't fuck with my people - and i am supremely loyal. if you breach the inner sanctum of my heart, be prepared for a deep well of all the mushy feels. seriously. b/c of the way i love, i think that translates into how i care about my partner - his heart, his health, his spirit, his needs and wants and desires. if i'm...