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i've seen many an exchange like this: female dominant: it's pretty easy to tell the difference between a lifestyle domme profile, fin domme profile, a pro domme profile and a scammer profile.... male submissive: no it's not! really? b/c it always seems blatantly obvious to me what a legit fin or pro domme profile looks like, what a scammer's looks like and what a lifestyle domme profile looks like (exception: blank profiles since they tell you nothing). but men often are fooled or taken in. i've read more than a few posts/rants by men, quite upset that they feel they've been taken advantage of/or feel pressured to pay tributes. and they get mad at all dominant women. i would suggest both lesson#  67  and  68  would be good to read b/c it's helpful to work your head around some of these things and besides, reading is sexy. reading to learn and teach yourself is sexier. just sayin'... anyhoo, in the interests of helping those who can't tell, here are t...

for the quintessential do me sub a reputable pro dominant can be one of the most worthwhile bdsm experiences he/she may get in the early stages of their kink journey. hell, at any stage of their kink journey. but it's not just for the do me sub. it can be for any submissive or bottom (and i've known a few who have actually truly appreciated what they learned from their pro domme sessions.) now i will stress, you want a reputable pro domme so select carefully - check out their website, ask them for references, and check out their reviews. and also ask around kinkland since many pro dommes will attend bigger parties and conferences, too.  someone who's going to play safe and has honed her skills in the areas that you are most interested in exploring. references are good. vetting is good. select a good service cause it's your body , you're talking about. you'd kind like to keep it intact for future kinky fun, right? i know pro dommes get a bad rap b/c omigosh...th...