omg lessons

a lot of s-type men...i mean a lot of men, dig the whole humiliation and degradation kink. the 'worthless worm' tropes, the desire to be called a 'little bitch' or insulted and broken down with words is a common ask. so common, in fact, that i indulged a time or two when i first started out as a dominant. but i knew i didn't much care for it. it really wasn't my thing. it didn't turn my buttons. but hey, i thought i wouldn't really enjoy beating men's asses with interesting toys either...and look how that turned out:) so, i thought i'd give it a shot. and rationally, i understand that the 'right' humiliation or degradation titillates and works in a way that we can't always explain. some people really really enjoy it. when you can find just the right words and the right tone and the right acts to just make it hot. the problem is...that's not how i want to use my power. it's not something i like. i've heard too much, i know...