omg lessons

fantasizing is not a bad thing at all. i like doing it myself :) here's the thing that is not so great: when people, any person, enters my inbox spouting all their wank fantasies when i don't know them, have never spoken to them, never interacted with them, never asked for anything like that filth, it sickens me. when that shit enters my inbox every fucking day or every other day - you can see where a girl might get, oh, a wee bit of a negative idea about a man and his fantasies, right? it's not that people have fantasies. it's that they share them randomly when they are not welcome, not requested, not solicited in any way. i don't care if you fantasize. i don't care what you fantasize about. just please don't share it with me. just b/c i'm a dominant woman doesn't mean i'm open to any and all sundry s-type male's fantasies. i'm still a person and my consent is important. i don't think being kinky excuses you from behaving like a dece...