omg lessons

so you've discovered online chat groups like those on fetlife, discussing non fiction, real world femdom topics. wonderful! there's a wealth of info in groups and you can learn so much by actively engaging with others in this space. you can get noticed . gain a little cache on a particular site, even. and if you play your cards right, make a few new friends.  there's a few basics we should cover cause i've seen it done badly and i've seen it done well. heck, when i first started, i stumbled a bit and would have liked a bit of how to guide myself. instead, i learned the hard way. got my ass handed to me sometimes.  don't be the clueless me, ok? caveat 1: this advice probably does not apply well to fuck or pass (game) groups or any online classifieds groups. caveat 2: if all you want to do is play in the fuck or pass groups or classifieds groups....it's not a good look and will likely be a detriment in your posting history. just sayin'... with all that out...