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i shamelessly admit i love fetish wear. i love corsets, lingerie, stockings, the thigh high boots and pretty shoes. and i wear it for me. not b/c it fits a submissive's aesthetic for how a fantasy domme should look. i have a thing for latex and leather. and yes, aesthetics play a big role not only in my kink life but also in my vanilla life. i find that many many submissive men have images on their profiles with dommes with the quintessential corset and high heels all the time. and yet, when you see their pix, there is no fetish wear in sight. usually, it's their cock on display. or marks from a beating. or having been bound in some way. but no fetish wear eye candy for me. no leather, latex, etc. naked seems to be the common theme. which to me smacks of laziness. and no, i don't want to see your naked self. i want to see something that shows you put some thought, effort and energy into creating an aesthetic for me to enjoy looking at. to be clear, i am speaking of specific...