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it comes up a lot online. have you seen it? the perceived slight or insult and the completely over the top reaction to a comment that isn't directed at anyone specifically...but is felt as if an arrow was shot into someone's heart? that someone who feels so incensed that they feel the need to combat slights that don't exist? didn't even exist in the original comment? it's perception by those who may be a wee bit too sensitive. butt hurt is typically used sarcastically or to ridicule someone who's whining about something they don’t like. usually, it tends to be around kink shaming. how dare you shame my kink? how dare you laugh at my kink? how DARE YOU saying anything negative about my kink? let's be clear. when someone says they aren't into a kink and explains why it's not for them, that's not actually kink shaming. they are just explaining why it's not for them ...and perhaps they may say why it squicks them/grosses them out/makes them uncom...

if you've read some of my posts or my profile, you may have noticed that i have a thing for words. it's more a love affair. i've always been a voracious reader and i love words. i love expanding my vocabulary, letting words roll off my tongue and march across the page. i love words for all kinds of social situations. not surprisingly, i love a man who has an extensive vocabulary and knows how to use it. i love being read to by a man with a melodious voice. great conversation, witty banter all can be one of the sexiest types of foreplay...since it's all about anticipation and imagination. for me, it creates a space of intense desire with the right kind of naughtiness. there are words that definitely turn me on. use the right ones, and i'm aroused in no time flat. i can almost orgasm just with the right dirty talk whispered in my ear and a wee nudge of your fingers...by the same token, there are words that turn me off. i'm not sure why certain words are like a col...