omg lessons

listen, i get that it can be a journey to kink and understanding your kinky desires. sometimes, you go about life following peer pressure, societal expectations, the behaviour that everyone around you, seems to demonstrate. i understand that desire to conform, to fit in, b/c it's simpler. it makes sense. it has an air of legitimacy and decency and being appropriate. right? and we all love. we all love differently, but we as human beings seek connections and love and acceptance and togetherness. there are very few real hermits in the world. and they can't seem to maintain it, can they? so we live together, we pair off. we relationship. we marry. b/c that's the thing to do and that's how we do it, in vanilla life - the default of society. human beings are social creatures, after all. even the most introverted of introverts seeks human connection of some kind. wants to be loved. and i imagine, that some of us repress the kinky, or don't discover the kinky or even under...