omg lessons

first off, saying you have 'no limits' is stupid and will ensure that almost no one takes you seriously. lesson#14 helps you with this. however, there are predators, abusers and scammers who rather love when they hit upon someone who says this. b/c that just means they've 'got a live one'. don't be that kind of fuckstick. what we do is inherently risky. we can have significant impacts on our mental, physical and emotional health. and being blindly ignorant or pretending that isn't the case is just dumb. and tells me, that you're not ready for kink. b/c honestly, if you can't be self aware enough to have not only considered your risk profile but also understand what risks you're willing to take and not take means you should go back home and hide under the bed and contemplate why the fuck you have no sense of self preservation. or better yet, educate yourself so i don't have to think of you as a fuckstick. just sayin'... b/c bdsm is not ab...

i'm a very visual person. i'm about the aesthetics AND the function. i like things that look hot. cool. dressed up. vivid. and nudity ain't it. your dick pix ain't it. now if your dick was encased in leather or latex...i might take a peek. which is all to say, that we women are not into the skin pix as much as men are. or maybe that's just me? and all my gfs. and all my domme friends. so i can't speak for all women out there. just the ones i know... don't get me wrong, we may salivate over the occasional 6 pack (not my thing but i've seen it online) and so on. but what we really dig (that is to say, all the women i know - vanilla and kink) is a well dressed man. now this can take many forms and there are so many situations. so for today's lesson, i am simply going to focus on kink apparel for boys...or men. take your pick. this is a subject near and dear to my heart. i actually did a writing on fetish wear for boys b/c the visual aspects of kink are ...

first off, this lesson is brought to you courtesy of @jackburden (on fetlife) who did all the research/ legwork on this. but since he's a bit shy, he offered all his work to me to add to my omg lessons. i don't know this young man in person, but he's awfully lovely when we message each other. just sayin'... now why do all the good single subs live so far away from me?!!?!?!? sigh but i digress...on to the lesson.... this could be considered part 2 of omg lesson#72: fetish wear for boys but the focus is really on underwear and more intimate apparel so really it deserved its own title. imho. men, boys, dudes, bros - you really need to up your underwear game. worn, torn, barely there, and gear with holes in them are not attractive. and i'm not even going to talk about cleanliness b/c that should go without saying. particularly if you're planning on bottoming or any public kinky play, you ought to plan to have some nice underwear, ok? now in @jackburden's words...