omg lesson#76: when you shouldn't go to a munch
munches are these low key networking events for kinksters. want to know more about munches? lesson# 75 will give you the 411. i regularly suggest munches to newbies who want to meet other kinksters, meet potential partners, and learn more about kink in practical real world terms (ie not porn). but i'm always really clear that they aren't meat markets. i explain they are social gatherings to connect and network. however, in the interests of not inundating poor munch organizers with inappropriate fuckwads, i do think that some people should avoid munches - not just b/c they are basically pissing up a rope when they do - they are potentially messing up the experience for all the other munch attendees. if you fall into any of the following categories, stay away from munches. like far, far away... 1. you just want to get laid and you heard kinky women were easy. fuck off. you don't get it and likely will never get it. stick with tinder and adultfriendfinder. 2. you want to mee...