omg lessons

well, of course you already know this, right? no one is. it's one of those superpowers reserved for comic book heroes and supernatural fiction aficionados. so you know this...and still you think that i can read your mind about what you want, what you desire and what you're hoping i'll do b/c i'm dominant? why do you do this? it happens. a lot. and thus, i feel it's important to clear something up right now (and will reserve the right to refer to it in other lessons.) dominant does not = omniscient. oh, what does omnisicient mean, you might ask? it simply means 'all knowing'. and i cannot tell you the number of submissive men who approach me with the idea that being dominant somehow means i'm omniscient. and though i dearly wish i was...i am not. no dominant is. even if they say they are. i mean there's fantasy and then there's delusion. it's good to know the difference. yes? just nod your head. there's a good boy :) anyhoo, just b/c one...

listen, i get that it can be a journey to kink and understanding your kinky desires. sometimes, you go about life following peer pressure, societal expectations, the behaviour that everyone around you, seems to demonstrate. i understand that desire to conform, to fit in, b/c it's simpler. it makes sense. it has an air of legitimacy and decency and being appropriate. right? and we all love. we all love differently, but we as human beings seek connections and love and acceptance and togetherness. there are very few real hermits in the world. and they can't seem to maintain it, can they? so we live together, we pair off. we relationship. we marry. b/c that's the thing to do and that's how we do it, in vanilla life - the default of society. human beings are social creatures, after all. even the most introverted of introverts seeks human connection of some kind. wants to be loved. and i imagine, that some of us repress the kinky, or don't discover the kinky or even under...