omg lesson #29: butt hurt, kink shaming, & judgemental people in kinkland
it comes up a lot online. have you seen it? the perceived slight or insult and the completely over the top reaction to a comment that isn't directed at anyone specifically...but is felt as if an arrow was shot into someone's heart? that someone who feels so incensed that they feel the need to combat slights that don't exist? didn't even exist in the original comment? it's perception by those who may be a wee bit too sensitive. butt hurt is typically used sarcastically or to ridicule someone who's whining about something they don’t like. usually, it tends to be around kink shaming. how dare you shame my kink? how dare you laugh at my kink? how DARE YOU saying anything negative about my kink? let's be clear. when someone says they aren't into a kink and explains why it's not for them, that's not actually kink shaming. they are just explaining why it's not for them ...and perhaps they may say why it squicks them/grosses them out/makes them uncom...