omg lesson#42: whatever can you do with ice cubes?
i have a long standing rule with my play partners. b/c i play non sexually, they are not to get physically aroused while we play. now some may say that's unusually cruel and i would respond with, 'did you forget i'm a sadist?', but really, it's not like i'm forcing them or anything. and it's an 'obey me and get your mind to conquer your body' kind of thing. anyhoo, i had one particular play partner who really really struggled with this. the consequence of not complying is that play stops and i leave. and neither of us really wanted that. but he couldn't manage it. so after the 2nd time we had to end a play session early, we sat down and talked about what was going on. he was really really trying. but this was new and he figured he might need a little help. now part and parcel of our play is i determine what you're going to wear. in his case, it was ladies' underwear. so the next time i came over to play, and he was struggling with my litt...