omg lesson#39: being a female outlier in kink
apparently, i am doing kink wrong as a female. i thought all us kinksters were outliers in some way but apparently, i'm the outlier of outliers. for instance: 1. i'm a female dominant. what the ever loving fuck? aren't all females submissive? i mean as some kind of biological or sociological conditioning? who do i think i am? calling myself a dominant. for fuck sakes. that's just wrong to sooo and kinky people around the world are closing their ears and shaking their heads. i get that reaction a lot online. i read that a lot online. i get quite a few male dominants telling me i just 'haven't found the right man to submit to'. ha ha. i guess their fragile little egos can't handle the idea of a female being a dominant. however, i'm still a dominant and female so i guess i don't fit the kink mould. oh well. tough shit. 2. i'm sexually monogamous. monogamy is socially conditioned and once you break free of societal expectations and evolve, you...