omg lesson#48: a note about cross dressers and cross dressing
it's funny (not the ha ha kind) that on a kink site like fetlife, there is quite a bit of kink shaming and rather unkind things to say about all kinds of kinks. it would be good to just say, your kink is not my kink and that's ok and leave it at that. particularly for those who seek acceptance, kindness, and a wee bit of indulgence that they don't or can't seem to get, from the mainstream/vanilla world. one of those kinks that seems to get a bad rap is cross dressing. or rather it gets lumped in with sissification or forced feminization. leaving the latter 2 out, and focusing just on the cross dressing: i've spoken to many a cross dresser - in person, on fet, in vanilla situations, at kink events, in all kinds of places with all kinds of people - some who you would never suspect had a kinky bone in their body. the one thing that pops up over and over again is their fear of being outed; or being scared to tell a partner; of going through a pattern of throwing all the...