omg lessons

today's lesson is for the foot fetishists in our midst. and as always, this is just one domme's perspective so while this may all work for me, it may not work for every dominant. but i do think i have one or two pieces of wisdom to impart that while not universal, may be standards for the majority of dominants i've come across. b/c, well, we talk . and foot fetishists do come up every once in while. a few housekeeping things to get out of the way first. and then we'll get to the good stuff :) not all foot fetishists are submissive and not all submissives are foot fetishists. this is pretty self explanatory. but lest someone get lost in the weeds, anyone can have a fetish for any body part. i quite like collarbones and legs like tree trunks or eyes...ooh pretty eyes....but i digress. just b/c you have a fetish for a body part doesn't mean that you want to submit to anyone's authority (which is what a submissive is). i know male dominants who are into worshipping ...

i am sometimes asked how i plan a foot play scene. b/c i like to plan. i like my aesthetics. i like my feet. i like playing with my feet on a willing sub. and while i'm not quite on the level of foot fetishist, there are aspects of form and function to foot play that definitely appeal to me. my foot scenes are not usually just about feet. i usually incorporate elements of s&m, bondage and so on. but i have done a couple of scenes that were focused just with foot play. just an hour of funsies with feet. if, however, you have an aversion to feet, are not into bondage or blindfolds, we likely won't be having a foot play scene. i still might think you're a cool person. if you're a brat and aren't into obedience? yeah, we're never going to play. if every scene you do has to include an element of sex? then we're not going to play. but aside from that, if you like my feet, we might get along fabulously. NEGOTIATION foot play still requires a level of negotiatio...