omg lessons

ah grasshopper. so you want to play. and by play, you mean some person, you like the look of, is going to tie you up, mummify you, maybe beat you, spank you, torture you, humiliate you, trample you and/or degrade you. sound about right? and you don't want to actually submit to authority. you simply want to be on the receiving end of play. you want to be topped. you want to have all manner of things done to you; to willingly surrender to funsies, and ouchies and woogie noogies. that, my friends, is what we call a bottom . what's that, you ask? bdsm glossary: In a scene, the person who gives up control, or who receives physical sensation from a top, [is considered a bottom]. to clarify, a bottom is someone who doesn't want to transfer authority and who's not looking for a power exchange dynamic. they simply want to be on the receiving of sensations, have things done to them and willingly surrender to being topped. if you want to play, and only know you want to be on the ...