omg lessons

i am sometimes asked how i plan an interrogation scene. b/c i like to plan. be forewarned. my interrogation scenes can get pretty involved but i've simplified it here to the bare essentials. what i've done is planned a 'trial run' first with some of the simpler elements. and then from that 'trial run' i've learned enough to do something more sophisticated, detailed and longer. interrogation scenes can involve many aspects of fantasy and role play. things like abduction/kidnapping, torture, edge play, mind fucks, isolation and some pretty hardcore s&m. it's not for everyone...even if they say they really really want it. the fantasy can override common sense and more importantly, what your partner is actually capable of. i would test elements of an interrogation scene in bite size play dates to see how your partner does and to help negotiate limits and boundaries and capabilities. start with bondage and sensory deprivation. can they handle extreme aspe...