omg lesson #91: no, i'm not your therapist, either
sometimes, as dominants, we get asked by people in kink, to help them with big life decisions. or small life decisions. with all life decisions. that somehow, the 'dominant' label means we are somehow all knowing, all powerful, all something better, than who/what they are. here's a secret. we're not. we're just people. we have our flaws. and foibles. our kinks and quirks. and our own shit to deal with. now, i'm of the personal opinion (and this is simply mine) that dominants ought to, by and large, have their shit together. hey, if you're thinking remotely of having some authority over another human being - i think you ought to have some self awareness, a fairly good capacity to adult, and some life experience that tells you to treat people decently. but i digress... at the end of the day, we dominants are not perfect. we don't have all the answers. and we're not your therapist. 'but what does that mean, smg? you give such good advice. you know s...