omg lesson#16: training is just a kink
you may have seen the questions and asks in various online groups: 'how do i train to be a good submissive?' or, the more ubiquitous, 'i'm looking for someone to train me to be a good submissive'. now some of those men are sincerely asking. are genuinely clueless. have heard about some mythical training and are seeking help. some are straight out wankers but i'm going to ignore those and try to help the ones who don't actually know. there is NO standard or recognized training program to be submissive. 'training' is just a kink. something fun and playful you and your partner can do. no kink shaming here. just a thing you might call a thing, to give it some more oomph . give it the right mental 'feel' that makes something seem 'hot' or 'arousing'. 'training' is not actually necessary to call yourself submissive. you didn't have to present a uni degree or certificate to select 'submissive' as an identifier did...