omg lesson#77: your first kink event does not have to be super scary...
so you're taking the plunge and want to attend your first ever kink event. the nerves! the anxiety! the excitement! the anticipation! let's do this... first understand that all events and all communities do not all work the exact same way. there are always some peculiarities and idiosyncrasies from generally accepted practice and i always suggest hitting up an event organizer prior to an event to ask any questions you have that are not answered in the event description. the following is simply a list of tips and tricks to help you out and help ease your entry, whether it's a munch/slosh, a play party, workshop/demo, convention, discussion group or rope night. 1. people who show up at events are just everyday average people. no better or worse than anyone else. they may still be judgemental as fuck; they could be conservative, traditional, liberal, open minded, close minded, religious, atheist, and whatever else you find in the world around you. just b/c they are kinky does...